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Title: My Fiance's Ex Drives Me CRAZY!!!
Tags: jealousy, irritation, pissy mood
Blog Entry: Alright here is the thing. My fiance and I got together in August of last year. We met at Wal-Mart, and I already knew that he had a baby on the way, but with a girl that he cannot stand. They were together for 2 and a half years, and all they did was constantly argue. He would go to his friends and tell them how horrible and a b**** she was, and so when we met, I was with someone too. He treated me like crap. Was even moderately abusive to me. Josh and I promised each other that we wouldn't deal with that kind of torment or abuse anymore. So I left Almon and he left Melissa. I haven't had to deal with Almon since the day I broke up with him, because we didn't have any children together. But I have to put up with Melissa. She doesn't call and harrass us (ANYMORE). And ever since he told her not to make things awkward, meaning don't text or call and ask if they could get back together, and stuff like that. She hasn't done that since I would say since September. But she is soooo nice to him. I am talking about syrupy sweet nice to him, and he is the same with her. He explained that he doesn't want to make things hard on anyone, and he isn't going to be out of his way to be rude to her, but at the same time he is afraid that if he makes one wrong move, she will stiop him from contact with his son. He was born on New Years Eve. I don't have a problem with the baby, he has done nothing wrong in all of this, I just wish that he wouldn't have been born to someone that I know that I will never be able to tolerate. I just hate feeling this way. I don't know if this is a normal reaction on dealing with exes, but I am literally at my wits end here. I am pregnant, about 3 months along now, and so I am going through all of these intense emotions. She texts him on his cell phone, and she will call him when necessary to talk about their child, but what gets under my skin is the fact that she won't call the house phone, because she knows I will answer. I am really trying to be civil here, and anytime I have had to talk to her, I have been nothing but pleasant. I am just really trying to figure out what to do, and if this is normal or not.   Grrr!!!