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The poular perception of the sexiness of red hair: Male vs. Female
Posted On 06/18/2007 11:49:58 by mikelp
I want to take a look at how the world perceives differently red hair for each gender, and specifically the popular depiction of males with red hair.

I have a lot to say about this. In fact, I have been nearly obsessed with this over the last few years and I really should gather all my evidence into a compelling, comprehensive thesis of some kind. Anyway, the thing that irks me is there is a double standard here in the public consciousness about red hair and beauty. For as long as I can remember, females with red hair have been celebrated as sex symbols. You can go from Ann Margaret all the way to the pre-blond/pre-anorexic Lindsey Lohan:








 

 

and throw in people like Julianne Moore and Gillian Anderson from the X-Files in between.

 








Even consider the comic book character of Mary Jane from "Spider Man". It is also quite common for me to hear that a guy "has a thing for redheads".



What is not common is for any of this adulation to be heaped on guys with red hair. Has a male with red hair ever really been a sex symbol in popular culture? Are they ever used in modeling ads? Actually, I have noticed two in the last 5-6 years. One was a cologne ad that featured a shirtless guy but it was sort of in black and white so his red hair was de-emphasized. The other was a Timberland ad which I saw on some buses and the like last year.


Usually, the guy with red hair is the nerd or the outcast like Napoleon Dynamite,
or just disturbing and freaky like the Malachi character in "Children of the Corn".












One recent development has particularly bothered me. Many of you may remember the actor Cole Hauser from "Good Will Hunting". He played the good friend and drinking buddy of Matt Damon's main character, appearing in various scenes with curly red hair and scruffy facial hair.

 







 


In this and other supporting roles from his early career like "School Ties" and "Dazed and Confused", I thought Cole Hauser was noteworthy as a handsome male actor not portraying the guy with red hair as "the weird one" or "the dork", but as just one of the guys (and a good looking one at that).


Now, Mr. Hauser has moved up in status. Last year he starred in the Mel Gibson produced action/thriller flick "Paparazzi" as a famous action movie star who seeks revenge after photographers terrorize his family. What am I complaining about then, you may ask? Doesn't this go against my argument? No, because shockingly, the Cole Hauser who appears onscreen in this film does not have red hair anymore but hair that has been dyed dark black!

 








 


Recently I have also seen the trailer for another action/horror film called "The Cave" in which Mr. Hauser appears to star with dyed dark hair yet again. In each case he is unrecognizable as a man who seemingly has natural red hair.


Why is it that someone (probably more than one person actually) in Hollywood decided that it would not work to have a male with red hair as the action hero of a movie? Are men with red hair just not believable as anything other than the stereotype of pale, frail, gawky geeks? Obviously, this bothers me as a negative stereotype that I actively try to defy in my life. I consider myself athletic and graceful and physical and don't see why that should be unbelievable.



People often bring up Eric Stoltz as an example of a male actor with red hair who has broken out of the conventional geeky roles paradigm. Has he really?
What are his best-known roles? I would have to say a slobby, grungy, drug dealer in "Pulp Fiction" and a severely disfigured teenager in "Mask". I wouldn't say he was portrayed as even remotely attractive or sexy in either one. To further prove my point, he also starred in a film called "The Waterdance" as a writer who became paralyzed but still had Helen Hunt as a girlfriend and even got an awkward love scene with her. However, just like Cole Hauser, his hair looked noticeably and disappointingly darkened in the film.

 








 

I think guys with red hair have it a lot tougher than females because the stereotype of the male with red hair is quite at odds with the model of standard desirable masculinity. Perhaps no popular figure exemplifies this more than Ron Howard. He is probably the archetype of the non-threatening, un-sexy male with red hair. From his roles as Opie and Richie Cunningham to his career as a director of middle of the road, non-edgy films he specializes in projecting bland safeness that appeals mostly to moms. I have often felt that most females view males with red hair as nothing more than Opie








 

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- far more like a little cousin, brother, or nephew of theirs than anything close to a sexual male.


Thoughts anyone?





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04/19/2010 13:44:15
I Examine this in my short documentary: http://vimeo.com/10969045 feel free to check it out and let me know what you think!


04/16/2010 13:42:02
I know you ar going to get many responses that say your makig much out of nothing , and they willsite this person or that to try to prove that we are given an equal shake, but honestly i couldnt agree more with your thesis. I think I would even go further. I have found that on a disproportionate basis when you see a gay character in a film they are redheaded. I could list many examples. You might recall that Dayan Wayans had a comedy show a few years ago...well there was one skit where he was holding up to ridicule sterotypes....there was a song that was supposed to introduce a sitcom it went "the black the jew and the redhead gay"...some of my friends told me about it with great glee....I wasnt laughing. I do appreciate that there are some redhaired women that have a special thing for redhaired guys ( something I find very infrequent outside of this site) but I think for most of us we just have to beetroot with lowered life prospects. Its awful and I dont think there is anything we can do about it.        


06/20/2009 19:09:59

Josh homme (QOTSA) ...sexy, masculine, rough...just how men should be!! Don't lose hope guys there are definitely girls out there who like red hair...



06/21/2008 15:36:24
I think redheaded men are the handsomest. 


11/15/2007 12:57:35
I totally disagree that people with red hair, male or female, are less attactive than anyone else.  I am proud to have red hair.  It let's me stand out in a crowd.  It was annoying as a child.  As an adult I embrace the opportunity. 


06/24/2007 16:57:03
An all Redheaded TV Channel would fix all this. Cause every show on it would have a redheaded male or female lead. Plus, it would be a great place for young redheaded males actors to get their big break.


06/20/2007 09:06:51
Axl Rose, Dave Mustaine, Seth Green, Ewan McGregor, Steve Waddington, Jason Flemyng - YUM! 


06/19/2007 19:41:45

redheads of either gender tend to be more passionate than say... a blonde. Passion is sexy. Thus, redheads are sexy. Period. I think it has to do with the anger we develop as a defense mechanism at a young age, you can only be called a red headed step child so many times before you start off every conversation with a verbal lashing.


 



06/19/2007 16:22:45
True redheaded men are doomed as far as sex symbols go.  Your best bet is to go to beetroot and hope to be revered for your blue eyes and red hair, for it won't happen in the states.  Unfortunately, women can look VERY beautiful with red hair.  As a red headed male, I find many red headed women attractive.  Alas, dating one would most likely not work in our society.  If you could get passed the "raggedy Anne and Andy" jokes, then you have to beetroot with people think you're holding hands with your sister.  In hollywood, there is a select circle of redheads which have made it, although I suspect the market it quite saturated with redheaded actors "hoping" to make it.  Parts for redheads are far and few between.  Just the way it is, I spose.  Interesting article, though...


06/19/2007 11:31:20
I'm not into dudes or nothin', but President John F. Kennedy had red hair and he's generally considered to be a good looking guy and a damn good president too.



06/19/2007 08:27:26

I think David Caruso is sexy.... And I think Prince Harry is more handsome than Prince William.  I get what you are saying about the stereotype of redhaired men;  Most people probably think from one extreme to the other when it comes to actors with red hair:  Barbaric Viking type in fur and needing a bath or soft and kind and sensitive like Opie.  I have a male cousin with hair so red it is almost orange, and freckles all over.  He was teased relentlessly all through his younger years, but he had his share of the ladies after graduation.  I never really thought about how much more difficult it must be for a man with red hair, but as a redheaded woman I know it was definatly harder as a child and teenager than it is as a woman.   Almost overnight the change came about as to how I was treated/percieved by those around me and by strangers.  I think Lindsey Lohan is way prettier/sexier as a redhead, by the way!




06/19/2007 05:48:36

Daniel Craig!  At least we have a ginger Bond!


Except he died his hair for the film.



06/19/2007 00:16:34
Conan, too. (not the barbarian). Sexy?  Maybe not.  But the hero? Sure.



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