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EuniceCrankyponts_75
By: EuniceCrankyponts
Mood: administrative
Date: 12/18/2007 10:30:35
Music: None


One's view of needy might be the next person's view of outpouring of emotion.

 

One's personal battles are not necessarily more important than the next person's personal battles.

Some people on here consider it okay to berate someone for whining in a blog. Blogs are meant for just that. These can be a personal diary. If a person reads and feels it unimportant, move on without further explanation.

 

We are all here for a reason, a season, and/or a time. Some friends might be silent friends whilst others are ostentatious. This is no matter to you or I. If a friend seems too needy, then let them know in the gentlest way possible for as not to hurt feelings and what not.

 

If you simply cannot stand it anymore, then offer solutions to issues rather than making a person feel even lower than low.

 

Simply put, respect is not respect without kinds words and truth. So, if a person is needy, then let them be needy. Offer solutions to issues, do not add to the issues.

 

If you do not appreciate my commentary, please do not respond because I am in "wrath-mode". There is no fury like a crankyponts scorned. I have not actually been scorned but it sounded well, GOOD.

 

If I have been too forthright with my emotion, I apologize but to say that I should not communicate my feelings then to heck with ya....remember my vid-blog? Be a friend, Be real, or get lost.

 

I loves me redhedded brethren here on redhedd.com. In fact, I like to consider myself the redhedd.com Ambassadress El Supremo. Others might not see me that way - who cares?

 

So, please BE NICE! This is all I ask of you.

 

We are all fragile and F.U.c.K'ed up selves trying to get by in a confusing, shameful, and difficult world.

 

Allow people the opportunity to express themselves the only way they might be able to. Afford a person the opportunity to write a Gawd-damned blog without fear of reprisal.

 

For the love of spit, then what is this site for?

 

I am annoyed at the recent events - I do not care to know what happened. I do not care to know that people are annoyed. I just plain ole do not care.

 

Yes, I have my own demons to address but WHATEVER.....

I am working toward enlightenment and serenity within myself and the world - who really cares - I am not here to impress, address, or desparately searching for someone to complete me.

 

I can be complete on my own. I do not need a companion - as I want to be left alone. I do not like to be flirted with - but I love it at the same time....It's nice.

 

Thanks for reading my nonsense...

 

I love you all.

 

Eunice Crankyponts







VIEWING 1 - 11 OUT OF 11 COMMENTS



12/18/2007 15:59:44

Okay, Jules: you did not do anything, so no worries - you did nothing of the sort to prompt this blog. I am sorry that you at times feel as if you are too needy - because actually you are a good friend to me and others. No worries, and yes, the torrid affair is still happening. :)

Raph,

you do not need to  kick anyone's hiney - because nobody has effed with me -- I happen to have been on a wrath this morning and had to get it out of my system prior to exploding... 



From: Raphael
12/18/2007 15:07:01
ah... who's f'ing with you??  Who's MF'ing ass do I need to kick into next Tuesday??


From: itsjules
12/18/2007 14:25:55

And just more thing, because I'm prettty sure I know what prompted this blog: I started a huge brouhaha awhile back, centered around this very topic. Many appreciated it, a few did not, and I ended up feeling kind of like an asshole, in the end.



From: itsjules
12/18/2007 14:15:36

I will take credit for the whole "boulder" thing, yes I will (and buy a shirt, ya'll! ).

HaveI been mean? I have not meant to be mean...

I have felt needy as hell on here, gotten WAY too involved, and have started many many super needy blogs with tears in my eyes, but I take 'em down for fear of being ignored (super-hurts my feelings) or worse of being shredded.

I hope I have not been mean or petty. I may talk straight at times, and I do get annoyed sometimes, but I have tried to be constructive in my comments, and try always to leave on a positive note.



12/18/2007 12:39:51

Thankees Kerry! You write whatever you want, too. I commend anyone that has the nerve to put their feelings out there for the entire world to see....

:) The only thing I do not agree with you on is the fact that I do not Rock, I BOULDER! :) 



From: Kerry
12/18/2007 12:37:58
Nicely worded! Girl you have a talent for writing so keep on blogging away and keep on writing my pretty red headed friend because you rock! Go Ericka Go Ericka


12/18/2007 12:26:06

Thank you Hills - lovity love love love to you too!

Your mother was right. :) 



12/18/2007 12:21:50

Yeah? Well my mother told me that if you don't have anything nice to say, then you're probably surrounded by assholes.

 

I'm kidding of course. I love youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu lovity love love. 



12/18/2007 11:01:04
Thanks to the both of you. I find it hard to imagine the dis-compassion of the world.


From: feoxorus
12/18/2007 10:51:55
Well said. Can I borrow the soap-box sometime? Or at least tell me where to find my own.


From: MissAlissa
12/18/2007 10:35:04
AMEN!!








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